When Is Sex Not Personal?
First, check this out. If you or anyone you know has been in this situation, congratulations, you live in a world of postmodern sexuality. Perhaps the only union more awkward than politics and religion...
View ArticleWho Else Is Blogging?
I don’t have a lot of blogs linked to the side there, but I have a long list of political blogs to check out… you know, when I have time. But blogging is an artform of outliers. There are very few...
View ArticleEverything I Know about Desire I Learned from Politics
[First in a series of Creating Change follow-ups…] It’s only natural that the scope of my desires should expand as I am feeling more politically active than at any time since I left D.C. Both...
View ArticleSnapshot: Gender and Attraction
I was asked by a male-identified person about the lack of Y-chromosomes in my current polycule. What follows is the bulk of my response, posted here for posterity or whatever: My gender identity is...
View ArticleHello, Emotional Labor, Nice to Meet a Familiar Face
If I had readers, they might have noticed that last night I got really into a series of links educating me on the concept of “emotional labor” and ways it typifies the nuances of feminism. In the...
View ArticleThe Self as Unreliable Narrator of Self
search: define gaslighting “gaslight: manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity.” — Google “Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of psychological abuse in which a...
View ArticleExtended Obituary for Ed Hodson
This photo from February 2013 features Ed (early in his illness) and the author, his caregiver. Ed Hodson quietly slipped out to reunite with his beloved wife Saturday afternoon in Arlington....
View Article“An American Dream”: Eulogy for Ed Hodson
I want to tell you about The American Dream: I don’t believe in it. I don’t really think I’ve ever had the chance to believe in it, and neither have most of my peers from Generation X or the Millenials...
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